Cover Story 5: Subhankar Chhandogi




Women empowerment refers to create such a positive environment where they can take independent breath in the fresh air. They can take decisions for their personal as well as social development in general. Empowerment is that process which helps women to take participation in decision making which in turn helps them to achieve equality with men in various spheres. Written by Subhankar Chhandogi
BRIEF CONCEPT

Empowerment means to increase the economic, social, political, educational, gender and spiritual strength of a marginalized entity or entities. It is a process of obtaining or creating opportunities for those marginalized people. Women empowerment refers to create such a positive environment where they can take independent breath in the fresh air. They can take decisions for their personal as well as social development in general. Empowerment is that process which helps women to take participation in decision making which in turn helps them to achieve equality with men in various spheres. 
REALITY

Women empowerment is a very burning and effective foot step for development of woman as well as society. Present days in this male dominated society women empowerment is a blessing to the backward women of our country. But there is no such good work which needs not to face any challenges. So women empowerment also has to face lots of obstacles issues and challenges. It is very dishearten that the phrase 'empowerment of women' is considered like just a phrase in the multistage process of giving women what they deserve by the upper hand men. The very mention about 'empowerment' clearly indicates the men enjoy in the social structure.
HISTORICAL REALITY

Present day in the country like India, where it is a curse to born as a girl child in most of the states, there the phrase 'Women empowerment' is become ridiculous aspect. In our so called civilized society, they have been confined to hearth and home. In the ancient India we same women had enjoyed a privileged position. But with the coming up Brahmin traditions and with the advent of Islam they were further pushed into the background and they have lost their status. They were left secluded, devitalized and sheltered. These practices slowly turned into customs later which have been become tradition. Now they have to fight for regain their own respect. Even, as they are becoming aware for their rights and demands, the violence and crime against women is on the increase. It is very difficult to appreciate the development of women to illiterate man as well as to an extremely educated, cultural man. Historically, most of the progress related to woman empowerment comes from women themselves.

WHY WOMEN EMPOWERMENT?

Till today in our society, the smile become invisible from the face of the family members when a girl child born. Most of the family don't want girl child due to rescue their race. It causes destroy of girl fetus and killing of girl child. It is one of the burning problems of India where a girl child have to fight for her right to living. Women constitute almost 50% of the world’s population but India has shown disproportionate sex ratio whereby female’s population has been comparatively lower than males.In such a society where the sex ratio is 940(Census 2011) there to speak about women empowerment is just a quackery.

The difference between educational status of male and female indicate a sharp finger to the empowerment of women. In India the educational status of female (65.46% as per census 2011) is very low than male (82.14 as per census 2011). Here in the poor parents force and their girl children to leave school after primary sections.
There it seems very difficult to return that educational rights to those girls. According to those families a girl does not need to become educated because she has to get marry a boy has to become educated because he has to look after his family. Until these type of narrow thinking doesn't changed any kind of empowerment doesn't work.

In today's India the violence against woman has become recklessly increased. The women are reduced to the mere household obligations and with this the Indian society plunged into abysmal darkness. The woman who the mother of this society most of the time become victim of sexual pleasure. The cases of sexual harassment, rape have become much more increased in 2014. This cases of violence is not centred in the outside but it used to take place in our house also. According to National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB), the ratio of sexually abuse girl child by her family member is go out of hundred. Yes, it is true that many girls under the age of 13 have to face this type of disrespectful situation in her house. The physical, sexual, psychological violence strikes women in epidemic proportions worldwide. It crosses every social and economic class, every religion, race and ethnicity. Not only does it threaten women's health and their social and economic well being, violence also thwarts global efforts to reduce poverty. It arises a big question i.e. which is the place where a woman will be safe? The narrow minded man doesn’t respect woman they just look her as a body to enjoy. The incident of Delhi or Parkstreet are the real example of the worst situation of women. And our so called public leader who speak about the women empowerment, just give their master comment by saying 'in the little age boys use to do such naughty things' but they forgot, they are the child of any mother who is also an woman. As now a day in the ritual areas the woman don't have the right to take decision about the marriage, so she has to marry either with heartily or not. And in 70% cases these woman are raped by her so called husband. In school, work place, she has to face harassment for the sex differences violence against women is a worldwide. Yet still hidden problem sexual violence has become a deep part of our cultures and our lives. According to figures released by the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB), the total number of rape cases reported in India has gone up to 33,707 in 2013 from 24,923 in 2012 and Ninety-two women were raped on an average every day in India. So, none the big question is the phrase 'Women empowerment' will beneficial to women? In social field women are suppressed domestically and do not enjoy respectable position. They are not regarded as intelligent and powerful enough as men.
The main thing is that, the men have to understand that this society is not for only them. Men and woman both have right to equality. When a woman can travel safely in night also when she doesn't face any kind of harassment due to sex, when all the girl child will be able to rise smile in the face of her family and most important will be spreads its light without any challenges.

Yes there is many laws for woman but the gap between what is written in the laws and the reality in the field won't reduce unless the mentalities change. In such situation, woman are in the best position to influence these mentalities by fighting for their rights. Society must take initiative to create a climate in which there is no gender discrimination and Women have full opportunities of Self decision making and participating in the Social, Political and Economic life of the Country with a sense of equality. It touches on women’s sense of self-worth and social identity , their willingness and ability to question their subordinate status and identity, their capacity to exercise strategic control over their own lives and their ability to participate on equal terms with men in reshaping the societies in which they live in ways that contribute to a more just and democratic distribution of power and possibilities.
CONCLUSION

Until we can’t change our thinking about women, all the approaches, laws cannot be successful. When we can see women with respect, equality then the approaches, activities and the vision of women empowerment will be successful. Most importantly the word women empowerment needs not be mentioned further, because the word, ‘women’ will always complements itself in future.


“Is there any sex-distinction in the Atman (Self)? Out with the differentiation between man and woman—all is Atman! Give up the identification with the body, and stand up!”
“Woman has suffered for eons, and that has given her infinite patience and infinite perseverance.”

“It is very difficult to understand why in this country so much difference is made between men and women, whereas the Vedanta declares that one and the same conscious Self is present in all beings. You always criticise the women, but say what have you done for their uplift?
Writing down Smritis etc., and binding them by hard rules, the men have turned the women into mere manufacturing machines! If you do not raise the women, who are the living embodiment of the Divine Mother, don’t think that you have any other way to rise.”

“In what scriptures do you find statements that women are not competent for knowledge and devotion? In the period of degradation, when the priests made other castes incompetent for the study of the Vedas, they deprived the women also of all their rights. Otherwise you will find that in the Vedic or Upanishadic age Maitreyi, Gârgi, and other ladies of revered memory have taken the places of Rishis through their skill in discussing about Brahman. In an assembly of a thousand Brahmanas who were all erudite in the Vedas, Gargi boldly challenged Yâjnavalkya in a discussion about Brahman. Since such ideal women were entitled to spiritual knowledge, why shall not the women have the same privilege now? What has happened once can certainly happen again. History repeats itself. All nations have attained greatness by paying proper respect to women. That country and that nation which do not respect women have never become great, nor will ever be in future. The principal reason why your race has so much degenerated is that you have no respect for these living images of Shakti. Manu says, “Where women are respected, there the gods delight; and where they are not, there all works and efforts come to naught.” (Manu, III. 56.) There is no hope of rise for that family or country where there is no estimation of women, where they live in sadness. For this reason, they have to be raised first; and an ideal Math has to be started for them.” 
“The idea of perfect womanhood is perfect independence.”
 “Women will work out their destinies—much better, too, than men can ever do for them. All the mischief to women has come because men undertook to shape the destiny of women.”
“Educate your women first and leave them to themselves; then they will tell you what reforms are necessary for them. In matters concerning them, who are you?”
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Subhankar Chhandogi. Director of Agriculture, State of West Bengal, Krishi Bikash Shilpa Kendra (A Unit of Government of India). 
E mail- subhochh@gmail.com

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